About Me

— ABOUT ME —

I am an experienced male Dom who values obedient subservient subs who need structure, discipline, love, affection, and a fiery excitement.

I am 54 years of age, handsome, easy on the eyes and masculine. I am separated with two kids living with me. I am 5’10” and 245 lb so yes I do have some pounds on me.

I am Canadian living in Ontario, EST.

— ABOUT YOU —

Ideally you are somewhat of the jealous type and possessive. You demand my attention and crave it all the time. You should be younger than me, any weight up to chubby. You should be unattached and have the time for me when I demand it. Ideally you are in North America close to my time zone.

— THE RELATIONSHIP —

This relationship is long term online. And preferably it will be monogamous even though it is virtual.

I prefer we exchange SFW photos to see if there is initial attraction.

We build the relationship slowly to establish trust and to strengthen our mental and emotional bonds.

The communication must be open, transparent, and without any judgement. We trust in one another, we back one another, and you entrust me with your well being.

Once we get to know one another, and you accept me as your Dom, I will begin your psychological conditioning.

— THE DYNAMICS —

You will learn that I will be part of your every day routine. You will contact me when you wake up, leave for work, come home, and before you go to bed. You will be conditioned to obey through routine.

You will receive emotional reward such as words of endearment. And punishment for failure to comply.

Then you will be given tasks to do. Some will be at your place of work or study. Some in public. Maybe some exhibitionism outside your home. This is when I start to break down your guardrails and have you learn how to step outside of your comfort zone.

Next I will take over your sex life. You masturbate when I tell you to do it. And when you do it you follow my pace and my instructions. Your physical needs become under my control.

Whenever you need something I did not sanction, you will learn to beg for it. If you beg enough to my liking I will consider your request.

My control over you will increase over time until I transform myself from your Dom to your Puppeteer.

This is a lifestyle based on trust and deep bonds. It is built slowly. It requires patience and communication, and most importantly honesty and commitment.

During the dynamics you may be asked to provide audio recordings of your voice, photos, or videos. No expectations to reveal your face/identity.

— THE KINKS —

To me what matters is I have dominion over you, I have your attention and loyalty. I will provide almost any kink you like, and if I am not familiar with it I will learn it. The kink must be legal and not put the health of anyone, including yourself, at risk.

— FINAL WORD —

If this is what you seek, message me and we can chat. If we have initial compatibility we will transition to a more convenient messaging app.