About Me

A kink mentor persuaded me to create a profile here. I’ve been away from the scene for a while. Now, I’m curious to see which doors might open again.

Older, experienced, and frequently on the move, I’m preparing for a new chapter between Paris and New York as my time on the ocean draws to a close. After a lifetime immersed in New York and its art, culture, music, …and kink…, the lure of France (and its particular sense of passion and style) became too strong to ignore.

Writing and photography keep me curious. Sailing offers another horizon. I've also been spotted in the hot-pits of Le Mans and the Super Trofeo series. Oh, and there may yet be some falling down a snowy mountain -- which I believe they call skiing. I enjoy going places, doing things, and making time for experiences that stay with me. A rigorous work and travel schedule makes that time worth choosing very, very carefully.

My dominance is quiet and deliberate, with a playful, challenging edge. I enjoy anticipation, attention, and discovering how someone responds. I like a structured beginning: an honest conversation about desires, limits, expectations, and what we each have room to offer. Within those agreements, there is room for discovery.

I’m interested in negotiated online power exchange with submissive women, with the possibility of meeting and playing in person when mutual interest, trust, and circumstances align. A little wit and a mischievous streak are welcome.

I can offer focused involvement for hours or days at a time, or within the boundaries of an ongoing online relationship. A 24/7 dynamic does not fit the life I lead. I value being clear about what I can offer—and hearing the same in return.

I have little patience for deceit, but considerable patience for questions, learning, and finding our footing. Feedback is always welcome. Agreements are frameworks that evolve. Anyone is free to step away without owing an explanation.

I’m also here to rebuild community. I miss the friendships with fellow dominants, the exchange of ideas, and the pleasure of talking with people who understand this part of life. I welcome conversation across roles and levels of experience. It needn’t lead to play to be worth having.

If something here catches your attention, say good evening. Tell me what held it—or bring a question of your own.