Slave tallnerdy

What I'm looking for

Hey!

I'm 30. I've been a findom sub for 12 years now.

**I'm unowned! Updated September 2026**

Some details about me as a sub:

* My budget is 2-2.5k a month but I guess i can be flexible for the right person
* I'm a software engineer
* I usually don't enter connections with faceless people
* I try not to engage in findom more than once a day, so I might reply a day late if I'm not available when you message

What I'm looking for:

* Someone I can feel brainless with
* I'm into mean/bratty dommes BUT I'm also into mommy dommes or softer dommes. I genuinely like both. IMPORTANT NOTE: soft cannot mean "timid" or "weak". I have to feel like you have power over me at all times.
* Someone I can feel small and vulnerable and weak with
* Someone who likes to send video and voice calls (not a deal breaker)

Kinks (none of these are must-have at all):

* Feeling manipulated, brainless, used
* CNC, feeling forced
* TPE/FLR
* Hypnosis
* Gender play
* Armpits

I don't have preferred nicknames for myself.

Limits: no blackmail, no injuries

**I'm not looking for nudity.**

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