New to this. I am professional engineer and leader type at work and home. Find myself thinking about needing to be the opposite of that in some aspect of life. Enjoy sexual experimentation, but this is a bridge too far for my wife (she is more of a sub mindset in life and sexually), and I think about being called names, being treated poorly with some level of pain, giving some control of desires away, etc. more in recent years. Not sure what form this will take...
Anal beads
Anal plug
Ball gag
Belt
Books
Cane
Clothespins
Collar
Computer chair
Cooking pan
Dildo
Duct/Packing tape
Electric toothbrush
Handcuffs
Ice cubes
Kitchen
Leash
Lubricant
Nipple clamps
Rubbing alcohol
Ruler
Sand paper
Scale
Trash bags
Tweezers