Slave FeynxOnFyre

Looking for a strict Male Dominant. I respond to a firm hand and a velvet voice.
I crave submission to a man who has gravitas, one that I kneel to not just because I am commanded to, but because with every fiber in my being, I want to. I have a very high threshold for pain and enjoy pleasing my owner by being a very good girl and doing as I am commanded. It is a freeing experience for me and something that I have always craved. While I am mostly a submissive for the right dominant, I can be a slave. I want to be a slave. To be able to fully trust in my Dominant in all things, to bend to His will because He always knows best and has my best interest at heart, not just his own. I have yet to find one worthy of my total submission.

I am sapiosexual
Which is a person who finds another person's intelligence to be a defining characteristic that drives their romantic or sexual attraction, sometimes over other physical or personality traits. So, in other words, use your brain, don't email me pictures of your "junk" or toys. Cave man speak does nothing for me, and a dick pic is not like a bouquet of roses. So don't be a creeper. If you're married and looking for a distraction, move along. I am not interested in being the other woman, so don't make me one. Be genuine, honest, and real.

For many years, I hid.
I hid my desires, my passions, and my feelings. I molded myself to the needs of those around me, without regard for my own. I lived a vanilla existence in a vanilla world, and while I never felt dead, I never felt truly alive. Until I I found the lifestyle, it showed me that my passions were not dirty, but rather, sublime. It showed me the beauty and unconditional love, proving to me that what I had harbored inside me should not be buried or entombed in a vanilla life.

My passion and my intimacy is directly linked to my submissive side and I long to reconnect to the peace it brings me. I am not in a rush but I do wish to explore once again, when I am ready. Right now I am in a state of flux, unsure of the future and what it holds. Am I poly or mono? That I really couldn't say. What I do know is that I can't live with out my submissive side. I want to nurture it once again and find the passion that lays now dormant with in me and find my fire.

I let the ember die, to snuff out not realizing the impact it would have. Thus I ready to embrace a new submissive name (Fyre) and abandon my former one. I will rise like a phoenix from the ashes of my past. My wings have been burned and frayed but I will fly free in to this unknown future. Alone and unsure. But with with the knowledge I won't settle for just anyone my former owner set a very high standard, my submission is a treasure and a gift and is earned through time, and respect. I value my submission and myself. It's not something lightly given, and is never taken.

I am willing to relocate for the right Master.
What I look for in a Dominant

I like a Dom who has a creative mind and knows the creativity doesn't end in the bedroom but extends to the rest of the dynamic. Someone that knows my fondness for pain does not extend to hurting my feelings. Someone to care about me as more than a playful toy. A dominant that not only notices I have a brilliant mind, but will actually engage it, stimulate it and challenge it.

A Dom that knows the difference between "being full of himself" and being a narcissist.

They are two different things. A narcissist is a person that does not value anyone but them selves, Nothing is ever there fault. They lack empathy and compassion. They neglect you and take you for granted. So be " full of your self" strut in all your Domly Domliness, I will bask in your Dominating, Dominant Domliness and respect you for it.

One that has self-discipline and self-control, as I feel if you can not control yourself, you have no business controlling others.

One that can stick to Their word, be reliable.

They have a firm grasp of who They are, what They want, and how They can achieve their goals while being open to learn and improve not only Themselves but me as well. I am not a broken girl. I don't need to be fixed or rescued, You don't need to tear me down and rebuild me, rather take what is already there and treasure it, mold it. Into something better, while building me up, not pulling me down.

Nurturing and with a compassionate side.

Open to communication—be it praise or criticism.
Can admit when They are wrong when They push to hard.

One that whole heartedly takes into consideration my wants and needs.
That respects my boundaries and limits (which are very few), and tailors O/our dynamic according to those limits.

One that helps me to grow and evolve in a positive healthy manner.

A Dom that does not focus solely on Their own needs and self-pleasure or satisfaction.
That takes my happiness and well being into consideration.

A Dom that allows me to express my feeling and thoughts, but doesn't then use them as weapons to punish me or teach me a lesson.

A Dominant that knows punishment should be rehabilitative, not punitive within the context of the lifestyle. Or it does not have the desired effect. Driving the submissive away , rather than letting her learn from the experience.

A Dom that trains, and guides and mentors me through my problem areas.
That knows the difference between a correction and a punishment.

A Dom that does not set me up to fail constantly. That trains in a way that builds a girl up not just tear her apart to rebuild her. That does not only point out what He thinks are flaws that need to be corrected, but that he encourages me when I succeed.

A Dom does not just take control of me or try to order me around. That’s not dominance, that is bullying.

A Dom is ALWAYS respectful, will guide me, instruct me, encourage me, help me, and drive me to reach your full potential.

Not just in the bedroom, in LIFE

A great Dom will be the most supportive person you’ve ever met.
They’ll challenge you and teach you things about yourself you never knew.
They’ll bring out the very best in you.

There is nothing more intoxicating than an intelligent, well spoken, well dressed dominant to me. Kneeling naked, displayed while Dominant is in a suit...oh my puddle of girly goo

I give of my self completely. Mind, body and soul.
And believe that D/s is much more intimate than sex could ever be.

I am a rather passionate girl, but feel sex should NOT be the focus.
I like to be treasured and cherished not treated like a piece of meat.

To me a good Dominant locks His chain around the girls heart, not her body. A Dom does not create a submissive. He does not take a free spirit and bind her under His collar and chain. He finds one already so bound by the trials of her life and frees her from these shackles.

The items shown below were agreed to by the slave when doing its Skills Assessment.